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Hate to say I'm right again. Their reason for keeping the marriage and baby private was strictly to protect Pors reputation of having a child before marriage, and to upkeep his popularity. So much for excuse of them wanting privacy to protect their family lol. At least if you're going to show your true colours wait 3 months to mourn the death of your beloved husband.

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I have tried to remain quiet on this topic, but I very much agree with you ladies. Leading up to when Por was in the hospital to after his death. I suspected she will continue to publicize herself and their daughter. In addition, I found it obvious that starting from the hospital news she have prepare her and Mali future in case if there was no more Por. Truly, here it is. I am not saying she wished unwell for her husband, but to build a good future for her daughter and easy accessibility to the entertainment industry. She knew she better right into it or she may not get anything at all if she continued to hide as Por wished.

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I understand some of you guys' opinions. Yes, it's weird that she is out in public so much and I questioned myself that too since its hasn't been a month since Por passed. However, I remembered my friend who lost her boyfriend in an accident where she survived and he didn't. She was an introvert but made a 180 into someone so outgoing, showing up everywhere, etc. It was her way of mourning, her way to move on, and to hide her sadness so nobody need to worry about her anymore. We don't know what Bow's intentions are but at least we can say that Nong Mali is very much loved by her mother. I'm sure Bow and Por probably spoke about their future without him, have a plan already in case he doesn't make it. We don't know if this magazine shoot was plan before or after his death. Plus with him in the hospital for so long, we don't know how their financial status is anymore. It's up to Bow now to find a way to make a living. We don't know, she might be smiling and all in public but once alone, crying and sad. Living in Thailand isn't the same as here in the US. Job opportunities and salary are different. Plus she might have been a stay at home mom the entire time Mali was born so yes, she has to make a living and do it quick too. Not only that, the media is still hot on Mali so this is the golden opportunity. Please don't be harsh on her. She lost her husband and still has a long way to live without him. Her child's future is solely her responsibility now. Plus when someone lost their loved ones, there are all kind of emotions involved. Maybe she is just going with the flow now. What I don't like so much is people up in hers and Mali's face wherever they go. It's like geez, leave that baby girl alone.

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But the moment he landed in the hospital and became unconscious she was exposing herself on social media. Even during the funeral she was posting pictures. I know people grieve differently but come on your hubby just passed away, and his funeral is in a couple of days, take a break for a couple of days. I would criticize a private and a public person the same way.

And please stop saying `give her some privacy` when clearly she doesnt want privacy. She is the one exposing her child, dont blame the fans and the media for being in their face when that is her intention. I mean come on the hospital is a place where all types of diseases are airborne. She let her little girl play on the ground, roll on the floors in the presence of reporters. I saw one clip where she grabbed Malis feet and tried to stick it in the little girls mouth. If she wanted privacy she would have just stayed in his room like normal people do when they visit a sick patient. If she didnt put herself and her child out there, the reporters wouldnt be hanging out at the hospital too.

Pors hospital bills were paid for by Channel 3 so lets not say we dont know their financial situation because he was at the hospital for so long. Hes been a celeb for over a decade, Im sure he left her enough to allow her to mourn him for a month without having to worry about exposing herself to the media. I am not going to feel bad for the cameras being in her face when privacy is the last thing she wants at the moment.

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She was upset when people made t-shirts to support Mali when her dad was in the hospital because she claim they didnt ask for her permission first. She said during that time it wasnt appropriate for them to make those t-shirts because Por was still sick....so if thats the case then likely she didnt sign those magazine offers while he was sick either. But really I think she was just upset becuase she didnt make profit on those t-shirts. She should realize that these fans and their support is what made her famous. If not for these sympathizers she wouldnt be getting all this love. The press knew about her back then as his so called girlfriend and she sure wasnt getting covers back then.

And how could Por and her possibly talk about their future without him when he only became conscious a couple of times and couldnt communicate except whisper a couple of words. Lets not make him guilty for her actions. Even parading the baby in the hospital 24/7 to entertain the reporters wasnt his idea either. I doubt the reporters would have been there if Mali and her mom wasnt out there as well.

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I agree with you ladies. While Por was sick and during his funeral, she was actively on IG and such. I would be so depressed and sad that I wouldn't want to update anything for months. I'd just be mourning and spending time with my daughter and my loved ones. I said this before in a different post but I believe she likes/want the attention and used her daughter to get it while Por was sick. Like how she was always at the hospital hanging out and entertaining reporters. Hospitals are so dirty. I'd allow my daughter to go see his dad, in the room, and then go back home. Not hang out for long moments rolling and playing on the floors. Sigh... I do feel so sorry for her loss but I feel like she's making herself look terrible... As she seems like she isn't in mourning anymore and it hasn't been long since Por passed...

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Since Por couldn't explain his side of the story, out of respect, I refrain from voicing my opinion on why his wife and kid was kept a secret. I know everyone greive's differently but a photoshoot is a little hard to swallow. Considering the world just found out about her and her daughter, we know the photoshoot deal was done after Por fell ill or maybe even after he passed. I think if she would've at least waited until after the 100 day mourning, people would be more accepting.

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Well you can't blame her and people are in hot demand for her. As for her in mourning, she has 70 days to prepare and let's go of him. I think people came to love her and Mali because they all saw how she was going through. That's my two cents because I think she needs to be strong for her daughter because I am sure Mali still doesn't know her father is gone.

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Maybe Bow is trying to keep busy and on the go all the time to keep herself distracted from all the sad stuff, she probably don't want to cry everyday anymore thus going outside. Meeting people that give her support, hugs, pat on the back, well wishes, small talks with people. I'm sure the past few weeks before was tough on her. I wouldn't say I agree or disagree with what she's doing but I try to think if I was in her shoes, I would probably... maybe do something similar if I had that chance, come out to work, see people because I would probably fall into depression if I don't. Bottling it up is painful, support from others really helps, it helps you cry it out, clears the brain, think better. She has Mali to take care of, bringing Mali out not just keeping inside at home where everywhere is probably a memory of Por.

Anyways just wish her well, I just hope she choose the right path for both of them, I don't want to see them both down the road caught in rough sea because of wrong decision making. That'll be sad.

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I dont think she was ever weak to begin with, else no way she can be on social media while he was unconscious in the hospital. Nor can she and her daughter keep the reporters entertained while they camped out at the hospital. Part of the problem was her. She could have easily asked for the reporters to leave, yet she was part of the problem. There can be a hot demand for you, it doesnt mean you capitalize on it when its a tragic event like this. I rarely see hollywood stars cash in on their famous spouses death, etc etc. Its mostly family members not someone so close as a wife.

It hasnt even been a full month yet and shes already coping just fine. yes Ive seen her bts when she doesnt know cameras are in her face, shes not crying.

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so to help you cope you would cope in the form of media exposure too? lol I personally dont think shes all that heartbroken. Maybe its a relief for her she doesnt have to live a secret anymore. lol so much for the saying oh she can finally grieve in private after the funeral

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