RakLakorn

Girl, I didn't personal attack Mai or any member here, nor did I ask for other admins to speak up for me. Where did you read from that I atacked this forum and that I called Mai a bully? I mentioned "...was being bullied". FYI, I just stated my opinion on Bow and spoke up for a member just like how you're speaking up for Mai, the admin.

This is what I stated in my previous post "I thought she was being bullied and thought to let you know the same. No wonder Spicy forum is losing members because they cannot say what they want. If they do, they will be threatened. Now please don't say I attacked you personally. This is my opinion. Before warning me or banning me, let other admins/members who are not biased and are neutral to read my post first. Atleast they might decide if I broke the rule or not. Thanks!"

I asked for the admins to see if I've broken the rule. Not to speak up for me.

And do you really think that you mentioning me in your one mere post, make me feel like you're all ganging up against me?? Haha good one

Raklakorn, U did personally attack her , u said she was rude , u called her a bully, that's a personal attack. Not only was it a personal attack u also attack the forum as well. She's suppose to ignore all ur attacks, who can possibly do that? This is her home turf and u came in looking for a fight . Have some common sense

U asked for other admins to speak up, so don't be saying we are all ganging up on you

Thanks for reminding me about the rules of this forum which was not necessary. Neither did I attacked/bashed you or for that matter any other member/admin here, nor did I impose my view on others. Just like how you have the right to voice your opinion, others also have the right to voice their opinion. I don't know why are you taking it personally. Voicing an opinion does not mean attacking you personally. How about preach what you follow. If you don't like what others say, you can also ignore it right. Why is it just because we are members, we need to ignore and not talk back while you can do the otherwise. Can you please re-read what I've written and then decide if I attacked you or stated my view. You cannot threaten members in the name of "ban" just to protect your opinion. This is just another entertainment forum for me. I may not have contributed to it in terms of money but have not broken the rule as well. Just because I didn't agree with you, does not mean I broke the rule of the forum. And I didn't support Mango because our opinion is same but because I thought she was being bullied and thought to let you know the same. No wonder Spicy forum is losing members because they cannot say what they want. If they do, they will be threatened.

Now please don't say I attacked you personally. This is my opinion. Before warning me or banning me, let other admins/members who are not biased and are neutral to read my post first. Atleast they might decide if I broke the rule or not. Thanks!

Yes, I'm the one who said Por has left enough for them. That's why I don't think she is out there for money. As for fame is concerned, she didn't go out and invited the media to capture her and Mali's every moment. It was their (media's) choice. Even now, all the events she's attending, are not she seeked for. Since Thais are sensitive, they are just giving her an oppurtunity to divert her attention (maybe). Just like how the event managers hiring Ploy to support her 2 kids whom daddy Peter abandoned, the event managers are inviting Bow for a change maybe. And the people have accepted them. Maybe Por knew how people are cruel in their judgement so he kept his family a secret.

Are you the one who said were brought up westernised? If so, is that how you think about a widow? That she needs to stay home for a month. Is that mandatory? Let's be broad minded and let her breath. We're in 21st century, those religious beliefs no more mandatory to follow. Like I said before, who are we to judge someone? Bow is now a public figure and not public's property! Let her live please!

I don't think the hospital, the doctors, the authorities were unprofessional in Por's case. If there is anybody to be blamed, it's Por himself. He used to get fever. He took general medicines and was admitted in a small hospital before he was admitted here. By the time the specialists diagnosed, Por was already serious. They tried their best to save him, unforunately it was too late.

P.S. I apologise if I offend you Mai. The members come here because this is a public forum. I felt that it's rude what you stated to the other member Mango. We can respect each others' opinion without disrespecting each other. Thanks

I don't know if Bow is still grieving or not, hence, I'm not judging her. Because I'm not close to her. I'm just a netizen.

And why are we even judging her as though she's committed a crime. People have accepted her and Mali. It's not like she's shoving herself down our throat. Folks are happy to see her. Maybe she has chosen this way (to socialise) to cope with the loss. Moment of silence is different from 100 days of paying respect. Mathematically,it's not the same. If she really loved him, if her feelings are sincere, his soul understands it. She does not need to prove it and stay at home, wear black dress, cry everyday to let Por's soul know how much she misses him.

What does she has to do to make believe she is still grieving? Wear black clothes? Cry everyday?

Por was already planning to go public with his family before he fell sick. Unfortunately, things took different turn. Bow is not new to ET. She doesn't need to earn money through ET as Por has left enough for them. Maybe she's just trying to divert her attention and keeping herself busy and occupied. How are you sure if someone stays at home for 100 days really grieved while those who don't, didn't? Let's not compare Western and Asian culture. Asians are more supporting and emotional hence Bow and Mali are accepted.

We don't really understand what she's feeling. Por is a great human being. It's not easy to get over his death. She needs to be strong at this time. She's visibly lost weight. Let's not be mean and judge her. Maybe this is how she's coping with his loss

For his new lakorn with Yaya LLSR. It's a story of body switching!

Why did Nadech dress as a woman?

The theme was "Runway" but the aim is to promote lakorns and launch the teasers. So the actors were just fine for me as they are not supermodels to dress up like models here.

The 2 gowns I liked were Kimberley and Prang's. Mark, JMa, Tor, Great, Ken P were looking dashing!