[Mai]

shampoo, on Mar 19 2007, 03:25 AM, said:

True.

No one understand Oil's way of business. All his father do is yell and yell and against him.

How's it wrong to sell stocks and buy them back? His father wasnt pathetic though, he just didnt understand the whole business and all the stuff that Oil studies and uses in every day life. But Por should understand cause he went to school too.

He put his father's business in bankrupcy almost, cause he wasnt willing to let go of employees At least if he wants to be a nice guy, be clever enough to come up with alternatives, not put his father's company in debt

[shampoo]

Now I see where your definition of pathetic come from. GOSH.

[Mai]

I'm glad you finally get my definition of pathetic

[shampoo]

I'll be like Nam Ing, you're the best person.

gosh with all those compare him to Kongkhem, he is pathetic.


Por is pathetic because when he confessed his love to Nam Ing, he was saying how she don't care about his feeling. Gosh after all those time she stood up for him and she even argue with Oil for him. She did all of those stuff and at the end he say she don't care for him nor his feeling. She did so much for him that she seems to don't even have time for her own husband.

Then with New, when Oil told him to shut up because he dont' know anything. He argue with Oil. And then when he found out it's Oil's that pay for the medicine. He throw it away and saying it's not out of nam jai. OMG, how is it not?

Then the roan gnan project. I don't know what Nattawut say about the water becoming a dessert is true but Oil is building his project for good.

Those people are stupid. New and Por, Mai, like you said would have known better since they go to college.

This post has been edited by shampoo: 18 March 2007 - 11:42 PM

[Mai]

shampoo, on Mar 19 2007, 03:54 AM, said:

I'll be like Nam Ing, you're the best person.

gosh with all those compare him to Kongkhem, he is pathetic.


Por is pathetic because when he confessed his love to Nam Ing, he was saying how she don't care about his feeling. Gosh after all those time she stood up for him and she even argue with Oil for him. She did all of those stuff and at the end he say she don't care for him nor his feeling. She did so much for him that she seems to don't even have time for her own husband.

Then with New, when Oil told him to shut up because he dont' know anything. He argue with Oil. And then when he found out it's Oil's that pay for the medicine. He throw it away and saying it's not out of nam jai. OMG, how is it not?

Then the roan gnan project. I don't know what Nattawut say about the water becoming a dessert is true but Oil is building his project for good.

Those people are stupid. New and Por, Mai, like you said would have known better since they go to college.

my thoughts exactly. Por should have known that Nam Ing cared for all her friends. She's always encouraging him. She's always around to help him, always giving him a hand. She gets into fights with Oil so she can give him support, yet he asked her if she cared for him what a crybaby. I think if she was married to him, they'd have more issues than her and Oil. At least with her and Oil he gets frustrated, but then again he has reasons, she's always with Por, and he knows that Por loves her the same way he does. If she was married to Por, he'd cry and wimper everytime she's not around

New I just dont understand. I would be happy that my friend cared enough to donate money and never take credit for it until he was upset. Por tries to save him by cooking rice for him and making him run rounds or making him help out with the farm farming will make a sick person die faster in my opinion

[madeph]

wha....shammy, you watched Sai Nam?!

overall, i think all of the character had their faults...just with different extents.

[Mai]

Yeah they all had faults. Maybe New had the least cause he didnt do much and didnt have family. Oil was jai roan, but at least he achieved something. But it wasnt that I didnt like. lol I didnt like how he only loved Nam Ing and not his parents or grandparents. their love was one sided cause like he said to Jui, his heart has only her

[shampoo]

When he is at home, he only see her and everything is her's.

He puts so much effort in his work that the things around him is gone but only Nam Ing that he cares.

But I think for a guy that loves his wife so much like that is a good thing. At least I want my husband to but then I don't want him to forget his love for others too. We all need friends and family.

Yup, I watch it Kim. It's good.

Everyone do have fault but overall Por is pathetic and has fault.

[Mai]

shampoo, on Mar 19 2007, 03:34 PM, said:

Everyone do have fault but overall Por is pathetic and has fault.

I think he's only a lakorn character. Not too many hard working men can have that much time for thier family In reality though, guys dont really care for thier parents anymore after they get married. But in a sense, they should still love thier parents lol. He was too emotionally strong, his heart isnt broken for long. Not for his grandmother or grandfather. But for both of his parents he took it hard. It could be that at the speed the lakorn was going at, they didnt have time to develope all this. One scene his grandmother dies, next scene Nam Ing begs him not to touch his parents' land, and next scene is days or months later

At the same time, Por didnt seem at all regretful his father died. It just showed his mother wishing him well, then zip he's at the farm. There's really no tears from him at all

[shampoo]

With Oil, he has lost so much at one time, so by the time his mother died he was crazy.

The lakorn seems like it doesn't start where it end on the episode.

But we know at least everything Oil said was true. His words and his dedication. He love them all.

I love the song Oil sing.

[Mai]

he started getting crazy with his father passing away. He ended up in the hospital lol. By the time his mother died, he started blaming his friends for her death In a way, it was Por's fault. If Por never set foot on that farm, niether his father or mother would have died. She died cause she didnt give up the seeds or whatever it was in that basket. She wanted to give it to the villagers It was all Por's idea to give those away I dont think I'd forgive Por if I was Oil it's a whole person's life

lol I didnt like the song at first, it was too slow for me. But Oil's voice is really nice in there, strong and deep. The lyrics are meaningfull too. He's improved a lot on his singing

[shampoo]

But I love it the first time I hear it. Yes he improve a lot.

But then at the end he have to die. Oil's whole family died. OMG. What were they thinking? Except for Jui and Oil's baby. No, didn't their other babie died too? and they have another one at the end. It's still Por's fault.

[Mai]

its' all Por's fault. the minute he set foot on that farm, they all started dying like a chain reaction

Although Kongkhem has his faults, he's one of my favorite characters. He's very different from the other pra'eks. Especially Payu, who took it out on Chart and didnt do anything to the loser that raped her, or his cousin that almost made her lose the baby

[madeph]

It was good that Kong Kem loved Nam Ing as much as he did, but it's also wrong to overwhelmly, almost obsessively, love that one person and forgetting your parents as he did. I really hated that part of him. He was so self centered when it came to others who is not his Nam Ing and that's quite a big fault of his. That actually frustrated me so much that i had to waste a bag of popcorn to throw at my computer screen.

It also frustrated me how Por looked at Jui. I mean, for pete's sake, she's your best friend's gf/fiance/wife!!! he could loved her all he wants but he doesnt necessarily have to wait up for Jui to return it because Jui CLEARLY only has space for one guy because she's faithful that way. POR! Props goes to Nam Ing for being committed and not a slut! *ahem* besides, Por had his chance before Jui and Oil declared their love for each other.

So much angst in this lakorn but loved it!

[Mai]

Well did he have reason to be worried about Nam Ing? Have reason for her not to see Por? Like he said, I'm afraid, cause you and I we started as friends too, and look at where we ended up. I want more than friendship. She was ALWAYS with Por. As much as one wants to stay committed, closeness sometimes leads one thing to another. Only one person needs to act on those feelings and who knows what will happen next.

I dont think he should have cut all ties with his friends, but at the same time, as a married woman, you dont do sleepovers with single guys. It's just inappropriate period. Ask that on an english forum, on a thai forum, it's inappropriate period She had her reasons, they were her best friends. But realistically it's impossible for a woman to do that, let alone think about sleeping in the grass with single guys in the middle of the night. She was pretty much a baby Oil had to carry her all over the place

I really dont care if he has no room for his friends, I find it wrong he had no heart for his parents, but nonetheless, compare him to Por, he was much more of a faithful and loyal son than Por was. Por's love was rice, and farming. He destroyed everything his father dreamed of. Oil on the other hand was doing everything to make his wife happy. And he didnt step down, he went up the ladder. That's the difference