[kate]

natty, on Nov 27 2007, 03:44 PM, said:

kate, on Nov 26 2007, 06:11 PM, said:

Yes, I understand but whether Janie was married to this guy or a live in girlfriend, she don't deserve a prostitute label. She'd been with this guy for so long and finally decided to admit their break-up. So now she's the prostitute, she lives off her boyfriend's money....big deal.

so do you live off of your boyfriend's income?

well i dont know about others, but my mom and elders taught me since i was itty bitty to provide for yourself and not put out a cup and ask for money. whether it's from your bf or stranger unless it's a loan you have full intention of paying back. and even if he's your husband, things should be 50/50 not wait for him to provide for you. they always say that living off of other is a big deal, it shows that you are incapable as well as it's embarrassing.. no education and no class... but that's just me tho.

No, natty. I'm happily married with five kids. Actually, my husband lived off my income until our second child that he had found a really good job and was able to support our family. Before we were married, we lived together and I supported him financially and emotionally. He was from a broken family. He had a hard life at the time. People called me stupid, crazy, and all kinds of name because of the situation we were in. Did he felt bad about our financial status and had to live off a woman's income?Yes.

Any way, we were able to pull through this hardship in life together for the past 7 years. Now, since he had a good paying job, my husband was able to repay me back every penny which I refused to accept because we are family. But then, he demanded that I not work and just be a housewife and spend times with the children.

natty, i respect your opinion and understand your point of views and in Janie's case she was able to support herself and not live off her boyfriend's income, but I still think she does not deserves to be called a prostitute because of her choice in life or how she lives her life. I guess we are raised differently and see the world differently. In her case, money is everything. In my case, love is everything. I know I sound cheesy but that is just the way I am..lolz.

[shampoo]

lol hmm your story is totally different from Janie though lol no comparison

as for Janie, she just found an easy way out to get out of her hardship then since she does have a career and a mommy

[Mai]

It's called greed. some people are rich and they still want more riches. personally if I chose a partner in life, I'd want him at the same finiancial status as my own family it just makes life easier if you dont have to support ur significant other

as for Janie, maybe she got with him when she wasnt so famous and she needed stability in her life. Sometimes love isnt enough in a relationship

[pam]

LOL, I don't think anyone labeled her prostitute, did they??? Kate, you are married, as for Janie she wasn't so she's considered as a sia lieng till he got bored I supposed or she loved him too much to not expect any marriage from him and just live like gf/bf?? Did he even lived with her during those times??

[shampoo]

lol I don't know I say, even though his income is low, we'll work things out. I don't think I can support him myself financially.

Like I said earlier maybe she doesn't get paid enough too.

[natty]

kate, on Nov 28 2007, 01:33 PM, said:

natty, on Nov 27 2007, 03:44 PM, said:

kate, on Nov 26 2007, 06:11 PM, said:

Yes, I understand but whether Janie was married to this guy or a live in girlfriend, she don't deserve a prostitute label. She'd been with this guy for so long and finally decided to admit their break-up. So now she's the prostitute, she lives off her boyfriend's money....big deal.

so do you live off of your boyfriend's income?

well i dont know about others, but my mom and elders taught me since i was itty bitty to provide for yourself and not put out a cup and ask for money. whether it's from your bf or stranger unless it's a loan you have full intention of paying back. and even if he's your husband, things should be 50/50 not wait for him to provide for you. they always say that living off of other is a big deal, it shows that you are incapable as well as it's embarrassing.. no education and no class... but that's just me tho.

No, natty. I'm happily married with five kids. Actually, my husband lived off my income until our second child that he had found a really good job and was able to support our family. Before we were married, we lived together and I supported him financially and emotionally. He was from a broken family. He had a hard life at the time. People called me stupid, crazy, and all kinds of name because of the situation we were in. Did he felt bad about our financial status and had to live off a woman's income?Yes.

Any way, we were able to pull through this hardship in life together for the past 7 years. Now, since he had a good paying job, my husband was able to repay me back every penny which I refused to accept because we are family. But then, he demanded that I not work and just be a housewife and spend times with the children.

natty, i respect your opinion and understand your point of views and in Janie's case she was able to support herself and not live off her boyfriend's income, but I still think she does not deserves to be called a prostitute because of her choice in life or how she lives her life. I guess we are raised differently and see the world differently. In her case, money is everything. In my case, love is everything. I know I sound cheesy but that is just the way I am..lolz.

your case is different because you guys are married with children as well. She is just his "girlfriend". And there was only one person who called her a prostitute, I can't speak for her. But I reply to you to say yeah it is a big deal.

[KhoOnxNouxWanxJai]

wait .. wouldn't he be the prostitute since he's getting paid to be with her? oOops i read wrong.. and no living off her boyfriend money wouldn't make her a prostitute.. more like a gold digger.... and quite honestly .... I disagree with whomever say just because she was being supported by him she's a prostitute and etc. because for one before i was with my hubby we were bf and gf and he supported me. So that is like calling me a prostitute.

This post has been edited by KhoOnxNouxWanxJai: 28 November 2007 - 02:04 PM

[natty]

tina.. you guys supported each other.. and it's not like you asked him for a house and a car.. lunch money is way different dear..

lol gold diggers..

[KhoOnxNouxWanxJai]

he bought me a car and a home =/ lol and he pays my school bill it's more like he supports me hahahahaha not each other... i wish i had a job now LOL thanks a lot girls lmao

This post has been edited by KhoOnxNouxWanxJai: 28 November 2007 - 02:16 PM

[natty]

oy tina.. i dont know what to say about you now girly.. i was all trying to sugar coat you! lol.. oh wait... he married you didn't he? so yeah.. different!

[KhoOnxNouxWanxJai]

LOL mommy =p; hey i do stuff. I manage the household . gotta count for something lol

[thao303]

u got to b kidding? he is oldddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd

why would janie date him? no offence or anyting

[dmdaisy]

That's one ugly guy but janie isn't pretty herself so they look okay together. She lucky some sugar daddy wanted to take care of her in the first place (All you janie fans don't get mad just my opinion)Never considered janie n'ak material at all