[aumoilfan]

im havin a little misunderstanding with a friend of mine from highschool but i don't want our friendship to break just like that...

[Sunny]

Sadly I moved and have been in 3 High Schools so friends were all mixed up lolz, my first High School though were friends from Primary, I still keep in touch with all of them but we don't talk like so much before, only one, but its not the same, my second High School, I totally can not remember them LOL it was like only 7 months hehehe no friends from there. My last one, I do have but its not close nit, just friends I can talk to, hang out and have a group with, nothing special sadly. But still they are awesome friends though.

With friends I think one side has to be the soft one at times to mend the relationship and make it last, I can't say it last, throughout our lives we will meet and greet different people and friends, some might last, some don't, because things changes, due to the people and community we all hang out with.

[shampoo]

yeah it could last with some while some didn't last.

I'm still in contact and hang with my high school friends and I consider them closest and long time friends. We have mutual understanding even though we don't hang out everyday or talk everyday.

If it's something that is able to be mend, you should talk it over. Communication is key. I hope everything go well for you.

[Thip]

it could last but with me and my HS friends....I dont talk to them anymore lol...we didnt get into an argument or anything like that...its just after HS, everyone went their seperate ways and did their own things...

[Kiss*Me]

yea, I dont think high school friends last; i mean u can prob. still talk to them but things change and u can never feel the same closeness as before again. i don't think friendships always last, same as relationships they coincide perhaps.

things change, life change. most of all, keep meeting new people and stay positive. everyone has to change to mend to their needs so dont get/feel disappointed if your friendship doesn't last with u.

in my case, i had friends in highschool that were close, but as we entered college, we started hanging out with different people and some of them change so it was different. when i see them, i just stare at them and wonder how could they have change so much...but there's nothing i can do. i understand life's challenge and what they all go through; if they chose to not be friend with me, it is okay. however, if they're rude and talk behind my back then it's a different story; those i don't consider worth being friends with.

good luck with yours. again, think positive as you will meet new people in life! =)

[Sreymao]

Ever since HS graduation I moved and attend college in minnesota I only keep in touch with 3 friends we are like bff now that we older with family n kids we visit each others as often as we can. Now thanks to FB I found friends I haven't seen or talk to in 10 years we have our lil' reunion on facebook lol.. Most of my friends now are college buddies coworkers or friends I grew up with in MN. Like they say bf comes n go friendship last forever something like that. Hope everthing goes well for u

[nina7]

Honestly, it really depends on who you would want to see in your life in five years, and who you think you can trust.
Even though I'm in still in HS, you can obviously tell that it can be a place surrounded with negative things and
fake people, but you're just basically going to have to learn that you need to find that small nit of friends
who you can trust and see yourself with after you graduate.

I mean yeah, you're going to encounter those fake people and realize that you're never going to see them again after you leave high school.
You also have to know that during high school, people change and sometimes when HS is done, they won't be the same person you once
knew when you first started. All I'm saying is that, just remember who you trust and who you think will stick around when
no one else does and you'll be fine. Good luck, na ka.

This post has been edited by nina7: 13 June 2011 - 09:30 PM

[kimberly]

I've been out of high school for 6 years now and the friendships I've had with my close group of girls are still intact and we are closer then ever ... we've gone through everything together from engagements, pregnancies, marriages and life threatening events .. i think high school friendships can last if you guys do truly understand and get each other .. With me and my girls with our relationship we dont talk or see each other everyday but when we do get together from our busy lives its like nothing changed between us .. it just depends on the type of friendship you have

[Babyt]

kimberly, on 23 June 2011 - 10:25 PM, said:

I've been out of high school for 6 years now and the friendships I've had with my close group of girls are still intact and we are closer then ever ... we've gone through everything together from engagements, pregnancies, marriages and life threatening events .. i think high school friendships can last if you guys do truly understand and get each other .. With me and my girls with our relationship we dont talk or see each other everyday but when we do get together from our busy lives its like nothing changed between us .. it just depends on the type of friendship you have

Same with mines...i think communication is the key, even though we dont see each other everyday. a simply phone call or text here and there to say hi whats up..or a lunch date here and there...me n my bff have been friends since middle school..as long as u can talk out each other problems and dont act childish about it..it will last. me and her got into an argument once and i simply put it out to her and ask her what is going on rather than ignoring each other, we were able to work out our problems.

[Sunny]

Recently I met up with one of my bestie from Primary and High School and we haven't met up for 2 years..... hmmm dunno if I've changed or she have changed but it seem everything was weird, I mean we met up 4 years ago and it was okay, I guess she went through so much while I'm still struck with the time and not moved on or go out and explore that I'm totally not where she is at, but my bro in law said, don't be her best friend anymore because she is weird I think we all change, for better, for worst, for difference, I'm just too traditional I guess

[kitkat]

It depends on person. I have one and only best friend who lives in few states away yet we didn't talk much but we still have a mutual understanding of each other even our last meet up was few years ago. Like shampoo said, the communication is key.

I still have HS friends but it's not the same. One of 'em is actually my roommate and I find it weird because I know her since Primary but didn't become fast friends until maybe Junior/Senior year probably dues to her ex whom was my fellow classmate throughout HS.

I hope things go well for you.