I don't know about you guys but if i see a new guy in general or a public figure, like celebrities, I always question if they are gay or not. Do you think I think too much?

I mean there are so many gay people (not that it's a bad thing) just that I like guys and some of them don't come out of the closet. I don't want to be falling for some gay guys who will never reciprocate my love.
Or daras, I keep thinking is this person gay? Cuz the way they act sometimes is gay. I know that even if some people act like that doesn't mean they're gay but I can't help it. LOL
Is gay a really offensive word? I think nowaday it seems like I have to watch what I say.